Relationship Balancing
Mastering the Vortex | Masculine and Feminine Archetypal Hemispheres for a Happily Inner After
Written by Deidre Madsen Posted in Love and Relationships | Awakening and Ascension5 Minute Read | Introduction to Jungian Archetypal Hemispheres: A Balanced Environment and Avoidance Attachment.
Spiritual Vortex Energies, Masculine and Feminine Balancing
Discovering and Coping with Avoidance Attachment
Our relationships with our spouses, partners, family or friends, can suffer greatly if we ourselves are out of balance. Our outer world serves as a perfect mirror of our inner energies—balanced or imbalanced. When we feel a void deep within, we often try to fill it externally through poor choices, toxic relationships, or escapist behaviors ... aka, Avoidance Attachment. This only digs the hole deeper, creating chaos instead of harmony. Here are some examples of imbalance that may be challenging your relationships today:
Four Common Examples of Avoidance Attachment Imbalance
The Escape Artist Archetype
THE THRILL SEEKER
The quintessential daredevil, constantly seeking a thrill, immersing or escaping into extreme sports and events or spectatorship. Physical activity in sports and/or watching sports is great, however, too much indicates imbalance — until it becomes avoidance.
THE CREATIVELY CONSUMED
Constantly shifting projects, décor, or self-expression in a whirlwind of creation. There are those that spend an enormous amount of time almost completely being lost in a world of creation and creative expression. Creative expression is nourishing — yet excess signals imbalance.
THE LOQUACIOUS ONE
This person talks ad nauseam, about themselves. They concentrate primarily on their feelings, fears, thoughts, hopes, dreams and accomplishments (real, past or future) signalling narcissism. Philosophical observation and reflection is valuable — too much reveals escapism.
THE FANTASIZER
Cocooned in daydreams, fairy tales, or marathon gaming sessions, This person wraps themselves in an inner fantasy world of make-believe and fairy tales that friends constantly recite “Earth to [Name], earth to [Name]!” Some even play fantasy video games for well over six hours per day. Stretching one’s imagination and inner creative playground sparks joy — overindulgence keeps us from the present.
What Unites the Four Archetypes?
All four examples embody the Escape Artist archetype — avoiding emotional, mental, or spiritual responsibility. Individuals with an avoidant attachment style often have difficulty forming and maintaining deep emotional connections with others. True maturity means being fully present in the “now,” without hiding in distractions. In moderation, a movie or hobby refreshes us — excess drains our life force.
Mastering Your Energy Vortexes
The Magical Key
Life’s stresses often leave us saying, “Life sucks”—literally, as energy drains downward in an entropic “brain drain” vortex, like water swirling into a sink. The secret to lasting happiness and love? Unlock free entropy—the upward, syntropic flow that restores our natural higher state.
What is a Vortex?
In fluid dynamics, a vortex is a spinning region of flow around a central axis, seen in coffee cream swirls, smoke rings, whirlpools, tornadoes, or hurricanes. All vortexes have a core where pressure and speed concentrate. They can move, stretch, twist—and in life, they appear as repeating patterns or rituals.
Negative vortexes trap us (e.g., repeatedly attracting harmful relationships). Positive ones uplift (daily workouts, weekly Shabbat or church). This book—and its exercises—helps you find the eye of your personal core vortex to master the energy and claim your own “Happily Inner After.”
Quantum Vortex and Inner Vision
Through third-eye imagination and focused visualization (connecting mind and heart), you shift your point of view. Quantum principles remind us: there is no purely objective reality—observation itself changes reality. Attach your gaze to what matters in the moment, and it transforms.
The Two Main Vortex Types
Up-Flow (Syntropy) vs. Down-Flow (Entropy)
Nature Offers Two Fundamental Spins
UPFLOW
Syntropy (Upflow, Upward, Electric, Non-Chaos): Order, purpose, structure—like a clear path forward. Linked to past/future, cooperative instincts, and moral direction.
DOWNFLOW
Entropy (Downflow, Downward, Magnetic, Chaos): Limitless potential energy—the raw stuff of dreams and creativity, representing the present moment.
These directly correlate with our brain’s two hemispheres, connected yet distinct via the corpus callosum (300 million axonal fibers). Italian mathematician Luigi Fantappiè (1901–1956) linked brain structure to syntropy as the essence of life—converging toward future attractors, creating order amid entropy’s divergence.
Neuroanatomist Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s* stroke experience illuminated this beautifully:
“The right hemisphere is all about the present moment… It takes in pictures and learns kinesthetically… exploding into a collage of what the present moment looks, smells, tastes, feels, and sounds like. The left hemisphere thinks linearly… categorizes the past and projects into the future… That little voice says, ‘I am…’”
*Adapted from My Stroke of Insight, 2009
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Visualize energy flowing up a mountain peak (^)—the top half of a diamond—spiraling clockwise (like a “9”) in electric upward motion. This masculine yang energy is electric, affecting our outer physical world and “doing” actions.
Key Attributes:
- Archetype: Masculine / Yang
- Physical Effect: Right side of body (strength & structure)
- Qualities: Linear, logical, pattern, language, building, order, brawn, courage, clarity, provider
- Time/Space: Past & Future
- Symbology: Sun, Gold, Number 9, “I am what I am” (ego individuality)
- Saboteur Tool: Guilting
- Key Practice: Palms down (give) first, then palms up (receive)
Life Questions The Left Answers: “What should I do with my life? Where should we live? What about my career?”
Remedy: Climb a mountain (literally or metaphorically) for eagle-like vision, strength, and clarity to act.
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Imagine the bottom half of the diamond (V)—a chalice, bowl, or cave—spiraling downward like a “6” in magnetic in-flow. This feminine yin energy is magnetic, affecting our inner emotional world and “being.”
Key Attributes:
- Archetype: Feminine / Yin
- Physical Effect: Left side of body (emotion & softness)
- Qualities: Fluid, abstract, creative, chaotic potential, softness, inspiring, holding strength, nurturing safety
- Time/Space: Present Moment / Now
- Symbology: Moon, Silver, Number 6, “I am that I am” (connection to the whole)
- Saboteur Tool: Shaming
- Key Practice: Palms up (receive) first, then palms down (give)
Life Questions the Right Answers: Emotional “what’s going on” with mother, kids, partner, or colleagues.
Remedy: Enter the cave or feminine void—a soft, introspective space for healing and creativity, not “doing.”
Animation Idea: Electric blue upward spirals rising along a glowing mountain peak, pulsing with golden light at the core.
nimation Idea: Soft magenta/purple downward spirals flowing into a luminous cave or chalice, with gentle heart-centered glows.
We are electromagnetic beings, embodying both—like the yin-yang symbol. Balance comes when the corpus callosum (inner vision space) harmonizes them.
Experiencing the Opposite Side: Simple Meditations
Exercise for Masculine Experiencing the Feminine (Warrior Returning Home): Imagine coming home exhausted from battle. A divine feminine muse welcomes you with open arms, firelight, and nourishment. You collapse into safety. Feel the deep peace, rest, and love. Where does it live in your body?
Exercise for Feminine Experiencing the Masculine (Goddess Receiving the Palace): Imagine birthing your child, then being whisked to a secure dream home built with love and protection. Feel cherished, safe, energized, and inspired to create. Where does this buoyant expansion live in your body?
These reveal the profound difference: feminine brings calming magnetism; masculine brings uplifting electric action.
The Path to Sovereignty and Victory
By understanding these Jungian archetypal hemispheres—masculine doing vs. feminine being—you integrate all parts of yourself. You move from victim of repeating imbalances to victorious creator of balanced vortex energy.
The corpus callosum becomes your bridge. Inner gazing via third-eye visualization shifts your inner world, and thus your outer reality. You gain sovereignty, liberate fearlessly expressed love, and step into vivid, dream-fulfilling life.
Blessings and Harmony,
Deidre
Ready to Animate and Balance Your Own Vortex?
Begin with presence. Master the upward syntropic flow. Unlock the key to your Happily Inner After.
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Deidre Madsen
Award-winning author, Deidre Madsen, is uniquely placed to take her clients to the next level of success in achieving their vision. With over twenty years of experience in executive and holistic positions in both public and private companies, Deidre is well versed in holistic health and relationships, she is an award-winning published author, educator and public speaker of note. However, for the many who have met and dealt with Deidre, it is the rare combination of Corporate excellence and unshakable integrity with her warm and gentle soul that express the essence of what her work is all about ... the beauty of the human spirit. It is this combination of Corporate, mind-body-spirit technical and creative excellence that will lead her clients into their shining future. Living the values of respect, community, belonging, focus on service to clients and philanthropy are Deidre’s hallmark and one her clients worldwide are proud to have as a part of their team. As a humanitarian Deidre's focus is the empowerment and ascension of people worldwide. She believes the untapped power of the mind can harmonize and bridge between the structured masculine math and sciences and the unstructured feminine creative arts for whole-minded whole-body ascension.
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